Addressing potential confusion, Carmen clarified: “We got married”—gesturing to herself and Daniel—“but we did not get married”—motioning to herself, Daniel, and Lupita.
Conjoined Twin Breaks Stereotypes
Carmen and Lupita are thoracopagus twins, meaning they are connected at the torso and share a pelvis, reproductive system, and one leg. Lupita is asexual and has long supported Carmen’s desire for a romantic relationship. “But I want Carmen to settle down. I know that’s important to her,” Lupita told TODAY.com.
Carmen shared that she received many inappropriate messages from men on dating apps. “I got a lot of messages from guys with fetishes,” she said. “I knew right off the bat that Daniel was different… He didn’t lead with a question about my condition.”
The couple said they love children but won’t be having any, citing endometriosis and the hormone blockers they take to prevent menstruation. “We’re happy being dog parents,” Carmen said.
Advocates for Disability Awareness
Through their YouTube channel and social media platforms, the Andrade twins continue to raise awareness about life as conjoined twins. “We’re not just conjoined twins—we’re people,” Carmen said, pushing back against invasive questions and assumptions.
