When a family decides it’s time to let their nanny go they have to be conscious of this special relationship with their child. If possible, the child needs to be properly prepared for the separation. It will never be easy, but the transition can be easier if handled carefully.
A Clean Break is Best – Sometimes
Some experts think that a clean break with a nanny is best for the child, while others believe it’s healthy to allow some type of relationship to continue. In truth it really depends on the reason the parents are letting the nanny go. If the reason is serious, a continued relationship will no longer be possible, but if the parents and former nanny are parting ways amicably then some kind of continuation can be good for the child, the parents, and the nanny.
It Depends on the Age
How a child reacts to losing their nanny will depend on their age. A child under two will probably have very little trouble adjusting. Children over three may have a difficult time adjusting. If possible, a parent needs to prepare their older children for the transition to avoid unwanted mental stress on the child. Older children tend to form stronger bonds as they associate their nanny with many positive experiences in their lives.
