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As a nanny, you are working in the private home of your employer. Your primary responsibility is to care for the children but it’s important to have a good relationship with the parents too. You and the parents need to work together to provide the best possible care for the children.

You’re more than a child-minder

As a nanny, you are more than just a child-minder. You will participate in the emotional, social and intellectual development of the children under your care. Language development, learning good manners, and helping with homework are just part of the job.

You will be providing a safe, stimulating environment for the children in which they can have fun, play and learn too. You will often be doing school runs, taking children to activities and organizing play dates. Apart from that, you may also be preparing meals and cleaning children’s bathrooms, bedrooms and playrooms.

Even the most highly qualified nanny may not be the right fit for every family. You need to be able to interact well with the parents and children, even at times when it may be difficult. Not every person is able to work with babies, toddlers or teenagers and it’s best to be in a home where you can make the most use of your skills with a particular age group.

Be a good communicator

A good relationship with an employer is an essential part of being a good nanny. Open and honest communication is the key to any successful relationship. You need to be able to address child and work-related issues with the parents in a professional manner. It’s important to address issues as they come up or hurt feelings and resentment may build up.

Your employer will usually want to know as much as possible about what the children have been doing during the day. Keeping a journal can help you to discuss what the children have accomplished, rough spots you may have had and fun times you’ve had with them too. The most common reason for the failure of a nanny/parent relationship is poor communication.

Be professional

The best nannies have a professional attitude to their work. This means showing up on time, dressing appropriately, being a good role model and limiting the use of a cell phone or other electronic devices. It means being fully present with the children. Childcare is demanding and often emotionally draining. You may begin feeling resentful that you get to deal with all the bad things and the parents only experience the good things. You can’t ever afford to take out your stress or your emotions on the children.